I have spent 40 years serving the public and my country, putting other people first and feeling guilty if I didn't. However, I am becoming resentful of the demands for my time.

DEAR ABBY: I have spent 40 years serving the public and my country, putting other people first and feeling guilty if I didn’t ...

DEAR TOO NICE: It is not a crime to tell someone you don’t have time to do what they want you to do. It’s time to sign up for ...

DEAR ABBY: I have spent 40 years serving the public and my country, putting other people first and feeling guilty if I didn’t. However, I am becoming resentful of the demands for my time.

Once I retired, my share of the household chores and errands increased from 75% to 90%. I wanted to make life easier for my ...

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 44 years, and we have a married son and one grandson. My husband and I moved closer to our ...

My grandson is transgender and gets very hurt when I misgender his name. I am nearly 80 and use “she” sometimes when talking ...

My husband of 44 years and I moved to be closer to our son and daughter-in-law and our grandson, but my husband can't stand ...

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 44 years, and we have a married son and one grandson. My husband and I moved closer to our ...

Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams.

At this point, I’m actually considering divorce so I won’t be so miserable. Any advice would be appreciated. -- FATIGUED IN ...

My best friend “Carla” and I haven’t spoken for several years, which breaks my heart. Her son was getting married. The dress was evening cocktail attire. The venue was an hour and a half from where I ...